Partner with Find My Sexy
A careful resource for the women your work already serves.
Find My Sexy is for women in midlife who want to feel like themselves again — sexually playful, physically present, and at home in their bodies. If you work with that audience as a practitioner, newsletter writer, community host, educator, or creator, this page explains whether sharing it is a good fit.
The premise: many women don’t need louder advice. They need conditions their nervous system has not had for a while. Find My Sexy builds those conditions gradually over a year with small daily practices.
Is this good for my people?
It is a fit if your people are women in their 40s and beyond who are navigating quieter desire, body confidence, long relationships, perimenopause, stress, mental load, or the strange feeling of not quite being themselves in their body.
The tone is gentle and adult. No explicit content is required. No one is pushed to perform, disclose private details, or fix a relationship on command. The work starts with the woman herself: sensation, attention, self-trust, energy, fantasy, boundaries, and the conditions that make desire possible.
- Good for readers, clients, or members who want a private next step between insight and therapy.
- Not positioned as medical treatment, couples therapy, or a replacement for clinical care.
- Not for people looking for quick hacks, public accountability, or explicit entertainment.
Is this good for me?
It should make you look careful, not salesy. You can share it as a resource, recommend it privately, include it in a list, or use it as a low-pressure next step for people who ask, “Where do I begin?”
You can keep it simple
No launch campaign, scripts, exclusivity, public endorsement, or audience pressure required.
You can be compensated
If affiliate tracking is appropriate, we can set up a referral link or code. If not, you can share with no commercial arrangement.
Practitioners can request evaluation access before recommending it. Communities and newsletters can request wording, a discount code, or a private resource note.
How does it work?
- You apply below. Tell us who you serve and how you might share the resource.
- We check fit. We look for audience alignment and whether your context is sensitive enough for the topic.
- We give you the right sharing route. That might be a plain link, referral code, discount code, short description, or evaluation access.
- You share only if it feels useful. No pressure to post, email, endorse, or hit volume targets.
How can I talk about this?
Here are safe, plain-language angles you can adapt:
- For women in their 40s who feel sexually quiet, disconnected from their body, or unsure how to begin again.
- A year of 5–10 minute practices — not performance pressure, not couple homework, not spice-it-up advice.
- Built around nervous-system safety, responsive desire, body image, perimenopause, stress, and erotic self-trust.
- Privacy-first: no public community, no member stories used without consent, no shame-based urgency.
Example wording
“If you’re in midlife and feel like desire, body confidence, or sexual playfulness has gone quiet, Find My Sexy is a private daily-practice programme designed to help you rebuild those conditions gently over time.”
Apply to partner
If you think this would genuinely help your people, send a short application. Applications are tracked so we can follow up properly; submitting does not add you to a public list or trigger automated promotion.
Privacy-first, always
This is a sensitive subject. We don’t share member data. We don’t use member stories in marketing without consent. We don’t push scarcity tactics. If you send your audience to us, they will be treated accordingly.