AI & transparency

What this is

Find My Sexy is a small project that publishes writing about the nervous system, perimenopause, and sexuality for women in their 40s. It also runs a paid daily-practice programme. Most of the writing on this site is generated with the help of large language models, under human direction and editorial review.

We disclose this on every page in line with Article 50(4) of the EU AI Act, which requires that text published to inform the public on matters of public interest be labelled as AI-generated. We choose to disclose universally rather than rely on the human-editorial-review exemption, because we think the reader deserves to know.

What's AI-written

• Every blog post on /blog.
• Every entry on the /words glossary page.
• Posts on the Find My Sexy Substack and Pinterest.
• Forum replies on Quora, Reddit and Mumsnet that the project posts under the brand name.
• Transactional and nurture emails sent through Resend.
• Marketing copy on the landing page and product pages.

What's not AI-written

• The Privacy Policy and Impressum, which are written and reviewed for legal accuracy.
• Any direct correspondence in reply to your email or support request: a human writes those replies.
• The 365-day curriculum structure and practice scripts, which are based on published research and human design choices, even where the language was drafted with AI help.

What the brand never does

Find My Sexy is a project, not a person. The brand never pretends to be a woman who has been through perimenopause, midlife, or anything similar. You will not find first-person anecdotes claiming lived experience anywhere on this site, in our emails, or in our forum replies. The "warm friend" tone in the writing comes from specificity and validation, not from a fabricated narrator.

We also don't manufacture agreement on forums or invent stories to influence readers. If you see a reply from "Find My Sexy" on Quora, Reddit, or Mumsnet, it's an observational reply from the project, not a personal testimonial.

Sourcing and fact-checking

The writing draws on published research in perimenopause, the autonomic nervous system, female desire, and somatic practice (notably the work of Emily Nagoski, Lisa Mosconi, and clinicians at the British Menopause Society). The mechanism explanations on the blog and in the Words glossary are simplifications of consensus clinical understanding as of early 2026. Where mechanisms are contested, we say so.

We don't cite individual studies inline because the writing is for a general audience. If you want sources for a specific claim, email us and we'll send what we have.

Not medical advice

Everything published on this site is educational. None of it is medical advice and none of it should replace conversation with a qualified clinician. If you are considering hormone therapy, antidepressants, or any clinical intervention, please talk to a doctor who knows perimenopause. If you are in crisis, please contact a local emergency service or crisis line.

How decisions are made

No automated decision-making affects our subscribers in a legally significant way. The AI assists with writing and content generation; pricing, refunds, account changes, and any clinical-sounding suggestion are the responsibility of the human running the project. Editorial responsibility for everything published here sits with the natural person named in the Impressum.

Questions or concerns

If something we've published feels off, inaccurate, or unfair, please tell us at hello@findmysexy.com. We'll respond personally and make corrections quickly when we get them wrong.